The problem with the whole pickle is - like I shared last Tuesday - if you grow up hearing enough of this stuff it can really affect you. I'm forty-five now and I am still painfully peeling off layers of self-doubt and confusion. I've been known to seek validation in the wrong places.
Don't bother counting who Follows you or who Unfollowed you. I have a friend who tracks this with a third party app. I was aghast to hear this. I can't imagine a single benefit I'd receive to knowing that information. I'm still waiting for someone to supply one.